Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.
I tended to be more a romantic than a realist, and chose blind faith over cold logic.
He felt warm and familiar. He felt solid and safe. I wanted to cling to his shirt, bury my face into the warm curve of his neck, and never let go.
Keep in mind that people change, but the past doesn’t
Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.
apparently “bae” means “before anyone else” i always thought it was a ghetto word for “babe”